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Wednesday, October 16, 2013

The Mall Scene in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia

THE Place to be is the Mall

Before going to Riyadh, I never would have expected that the social highlight of my week would be going to the mall! 


But that’s where the action is in Riyadh. This is the only public space, really, since there are no nightclubs or bars or other public venues. The cafes are filled with men, women behind curtains or in a walled off 'family area' and virtually invisible, or not allowed in at all. Some restaurants are more open in their seating plan, but if you really want to people watch, the mall is the place to go.

The malls really get hopping after 11 at night, and stay open late, until the wee hours of the mornings.


Mall Culture
 
The malls is where you really get to see a cross section of Saudi society out in full force: families, husbands and wives, and groups of young girls and young men ( not together in mixed company but roving in separate groups).

A few malls I went to on a Friday night had live pop music performances that had the kids going wild. 
  
Once I saw a very interesting thing: I was walking behind a giggling group of young girls who kept throwing glances back over their shoulders, as if looking for something or someone. 

Suddenly I saw a rain of small balls of paper landing on the floor beneath their feet as they walked. 

Then, out of nowhere, a couple of young men swooped in front me me and gathered up as many of the paper balls as possible in 5 seconds before turning tail and beating a fast retreat in the opposite direction.

So this is how the young women and men strike up cyber romances: the pieces of paper had phone numbers and online contact info.

Here are some malls I recommend:

Riyadh Gallery  - The mall has 3 department stores, which are handy for hard to find household items and less common personal items (Debenhams, Citymax and Centrepoint), some unique shoe stores,  as well as some boutique stores like Sephora. This was my favorite mall because of the massive water feature on the main floor and comfortable cafes with great coffee lining it. Felt like a bit of a natural retreat and the only place with humidity.

Kingdom Mall - This mall has a ladies floor (with security guards to keep men out) where women can walk around without an abaya on. Here you will see high end stores like Saks 5th Avenue and coffee shops with places to sit right out on the public corridor walkway, a nice change from being squirrelled away in a dark back corner in a ‘family section’.

Sahara Mall and Hayat Mall ( they are across the street from one another)
A huge mall with great shoe stores, and special stores worth the effort of getting there, like the ‘La Senza’ liquidation center, and Zara store.

Granada Mall - This mall is smaller, but has many useful stores, one of the few places with a decent selection of both men’s and women’s clothing and technology stores. This was the mall closest to my apartment-hotel and had all the basics needed for weekly and monthly living including a small but good supermarket grocery store.

(A quick note about supermarkets - people I know raved about the Lulu Supermarket as the best place to find ‘international’ foods and decent prices. I mention it here not because it is a mall, but because it is one of the largest supermarkets).

No Chance To Try Things On


When I was there, you had to be prepared to buy things to take home to try them on to see if they fit ( always check the return policy for the last possible return date, since there is often an expiry date for purchase returns ). I heard that in 2013  The Gap offered  change rooms for women ( which was a very big deal). I suspect other stores will follow suit.

It was a bit weird to be waited on my men in women’s clothing and makeup stores, but they seemed to have X ray vision and always managed to size me up instantly and accurately despite my bulky abaya. When I left in 2012, this was starting to change, with women being allowed to work in lingerie shops and shops like Sephora.

The best thing about shopping in Saudi Malls is that the prices are so much lower than in other parts of the world. This is due to a few reasons. Most importantly, there are no import taxes here, and no national tax to pay at the till. Also, when they have a sale, it’s usually a good one, with 70% off a common thing to expect.



Happy shopping!


Wednesday, May 1, 2013

Some Insights into Middle Eastern Morals and Values from Sarah


Sarah Ali has written a book titled, “Teaching in the Middle East through Understanding Culture.” ( see link to the right on the homepage).

 It explores the slight nuances in culture throughout different
countries in the Middle East.

 It gives tips for new teachers who are not familiar with the Middle East and the culture. Below is a excerpt explaining religion.

“There are certain morals and values that differ from Western values. In the Middle East spending a lot of time together as a family and making sure that no shame is on the family through misconduct is very important. An example of a gross misconduct in the Gulf and certain religious families in Turkey would be a family’s daughter seen out on a date with a man. There is a lot of shame involved in this as a woman is supposed to remain a virgin until marriage. Dating is not an acceptable behavior in most families and marriages are frequently arranged. Drinking alcohol is forbidden among orthodox Muslims as it covers the mind therefore affecting the ability to pray. Although, there are many Muslims who do not practice the religion and can be seen doing contrary. Additionally, Istanbul is much more liberal and you will see groups of young men and women spending their time in cafes or going on dates.”